Am I gender non-conforming?

Hello everyone.

You have probably heard of the phrase "gender non-conforming" and have wondered what does that word mean.

Gender non-conforming refers to a person whose gender expression does not match the typical cultural norms for their gender identity. The most well-known examples are androgyny, feminine men, and masculine women. These are powerful things to be, especially if you're trans. Yes, trans men can be feminine and still are men, and trans women can be butch or masc and still are women.

I am feminine and a non-binary transfeminine person, a demigirl, lady-androgyne. You know your enby-girl, she has a lot of labels for herself. Labels are like that. We have a lot and are a largely individual style that tries to align oneself to social conventions.

In terms of expression, I conform, to my identity, but then again my identity is not conforming to the binary. Perhaps it is a little gnc. Ultimately, using the label of gender non-conforming serves to call attention to and convey that one's identity and expression must not be strictly conformed. What does a man or a woman look like? Whatever they want! Of course!

This blog was a little ranty, and something to get out as filler until longer fare is published.

Thanks for reading!

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